Loss of sex appeal on drugs? [Archive]

Toxicity

13-02-2005, 05:06

I'm not sure whats wrong with me, but whenever I'm on any
drug, I never feel like having sex. And sexual acts begin to seem
nasty. Please say I'm not the only one that feels this way.http://www.drugs-forum.com/forum/smileys/smiley6.gif

Toria

13-02-2005, 05:42

I feel that way too, don't worry

lancelot

13-02-2005, 05:51

I get super horny on any stimulatory drugs-X,coke, meth, amp....

But, i don't even think about sex on downers and psychedelic drugs-alcohol, weed, k, shrooms, etc.

Cloud_Man

15-02-2005, 23:34

Yea, it's impossible for me to get a hard-on when on dxm or something.

pacamohu

16-02-2005, 01:16

I think about sex a lot on dxm but its nearly imposible for me to get an
erection on it. As for shrooms and pain killlers I dont even think sex.
Alcohol thats pretty much all i want to do..sad to say.

I really want to try having sex on dxm and shrooms but have not gotten a
chance yet.

jackson17

19-02-2005, 07:57

All i can think about is sex when i'm high or I have been drinking. But when it comes to shrooms and/or acid I can't pay attention long enough.

William_Again

19-02-2005, 18:57

when I smoke pot, I get horny as hell, sex may be a bit more difficult
but its worth it cause it feels so good. Thats about it for drugs that
turn me on, alcohol doesn't work, makes me less sexual. After a few
days of using speed or dex/adderall (not tweaking 24/7 , actual resting
in between) my sex drive will dissappear completely. Never had the urge
to have sex on shrooms. DXM, had sex on this once, and apparently in
some men it inhibits orgasm, so its was futule to try and come cause I
couldn't.

zipoo

24-02-2005, 01:17

To: Toxicity
no you are not the only one who feels that way. it obviously depends what drugs our taking. but there seems to be too much pressure concerning sex when it comes to drugs. my advise would be to just let it happen. if you feel like it fine if not move on myabe another day, with other people things would be diffdrent.

sands of time

24-02-2005, 03:05

Yea, my sex drive is killed with anything. Sex acts don't seem nasty, they just don't seem as fun as usual.

zipoo

24-02-2005, 03:29

might it be old age, or the right (wrong woman) or too much messing with teh nerochemistry? i wonder about all of that myself; insights would be helpful.

speedqueen

26-02-2005, 12:59

I'm the opposite...only want sex when I'm high or drunk...After half a lifetime like that it's all I know!

jduba

26-02-2005, 14:43

i find sex to be far more pleasurable when intoxicated! last longer,
gets freakier, and and orgasm to knock u out! but have heard and have
friends that are same way and lose all sex drive and urges when high.
could it be that maybe you cant get an erection? i know some ppl that
are very turned off when high cause of this but if they take cialis or
something like it and get an erection they become very interested and
kinky! just make sure whatever you are taking is safe with cialis or
any other vaso-dialater (sp)

brooklyn718

02-03-2005, 03:58

I like drugs after sex more than before. Alcohol is good with sex it makes it seem like an effortless task. I cant have sex when im high on weed, it doesnt seem right. I think its because of the paranoia and anxiety that ruins the sex (unless your getting a blojob and smoking some i guess thats not bad) but the best is the "post sex cigarrette"

rafsancani

25-04-2005, 08:38

I completely agree with William_again. Weed does tend to get me
turned on. Sometimes I'll even get turned on while on adderal but I
think it is a mental think because I have found that it is almost
impossible for me to hold an ererction while on adderal for more the 30
minutes. Alcohol varies. A little doesnt hurt and may even help but one
more sip over that "limit" and forget it.

P!MPJU!C3

26-04-2005, 20:13

Drugs turn me on. Im always up to go to town on some fine female. However, when im high im less active in bed. I let my girl do all the work. When ive been eating excredine(Caffeine) Im hyperactive and i turn in to a steed. Powerfull and good to go for hours. My gf usely doesnt enjoy this and neither do I. Weed makes me more passionate.

P!MPJU!C3

sands of time

27-04-2005, 12:32

If your not a regular toker, I think a joint adds somethin to your ability and sensitivity in bed. Makes ya magic in bed!

fuzzymofo

27-04-2005, 22:54

I find a little pot helps, G will definatly help out, makes you as hard as a rock and you last a long time with an orgasam to blow your mind.

Other than those I cant get it up with anything else.

Nature Boy

10-05-2005, 02:25

I get well horny off pot and wine for some reason. Most other drugs seem to shut off the sexual senses, especially Es.

magicmaster141

14-05-2005, 10:35

When SWIM is on meth he doesn't want to have sex most of the time SWIM would rather talk/draw/drive around/listen to music, plus it's kinda hard to get up on meth sometimes. On DXM SWIM tends to just be way to messed up most of the time. Anything else (Rx. pills, weed, alchol) makes sex sound better.

transit

15-05-2005, 06:48

Some drugs take swim one way and some
another in relation to sex. Swim’s
weirdest experience was with salvia.
Swim had read that at low doses it served as an aphrodisiac. So Swim and friend both took a low dose of
salvia tincture. Surprisingly swim was
fully functional sexually, however, the experience was horribly irritating (he
gets a shiver up his spine just thinking about it). Swim continued with the experiment, hoping it
would get better, until his girlfriend, who was also finding it very
irritating, called an end to it.

On a better note, there have been moments
on lsd when swim’s body filled with a fullness of sexuality.
Such only sometimes occurs and then only in part of the trip. One time swim felt the building of the
sexuality (no not just his dick) and held off acting on it, expecting it to
continue to grow. The next he recalled
it, it was gone with absolutely no desire or urge or sense of sexuality
remaining – just some disappointment at having missed playing it out. Something here to be learned about living and
acting in the moment.

rafsancani

15-05-2005, 13:13

I don't think that you can generalize on this one. Everyone will feel
differently depending on what they are on. I personally feel very
diffently from time to time and especially from substance to substance.
I have had my best sex though on cocaine, adderal, weed and viagra
later on....

darksideofcuba

16-05-2005, 00:12

sex+drugs? swim can get a hard on while on drugs. but sex is one
experience. drugs are another. swim just doesnt have an urge to mix
them.

Toria

16-05-2005, 01:55

Another thing worth mentioning is if you've had any kind if sexual trauma. This doesn't even have to mean rape or anything. I've heard my mom having sex and phone sex and it totally disgusted me, and ever since every now and again sex is just disgusting to me, so if anything like that has happened to you it could also be a part of it.

elbow

16-05-2005, 20:24

Also, some people are just more into sex than others. And some people are so into sex it is annoying...

Not to mention the fact that drugs can make you a little bit anxious,
even when you're having fun. I know that I've sometimes thought "oh
lordy, I look like a lunatic right now" when I was on drugs and that
didn't make me feel like I was at my most attractive.

Nature Boy

17-05-2005, 14:02

I tried viagra for the first time the other night. It's great in terms of keeping a hard-on but it's fucking impossible to reach orgasm. The shit just doesn't wear off and I was left with a stiffy the following morning. It's great maybe as a gift to your woman, but it just takes the challenge out of it for me.

elbow

22-05-2005, 20:43

Nature Boy

23-05-2005, 17:37

A lot of things are dangerous. I can't eat for around seven hours when I take ecstacy. That can't be too healthy either.

lancelot

23-05-2005, 21:09

I'm not a guy, but if I was I would never ever use viaga--it just seems
like a really bad idea to me-I mean what the fuck is even the deal with
that? Having a hard-on for like 10 hours? That sounds dangerous!

It's not dangerous. it last only 4-5 hours and you only get a boner
when you are horny or sexually stimulated. you don't just walk around
with a 5 hour boner without some sexual stimulation. it's the perfect
med for those who want to have sex on drugs, but cannot get it up.

zipoo

24-05-2005, 07:06

A lot of things are dangerous. I can't eat for
around seven hours when I take ecstacy. That can't be too healthy
either.

Were you on something else besids the V?

That's what made it difficult to come. I don't see why v will make you not be able to come.

Nature Boy

24-05-2005, 18:04

I dunno man, I couldn't come near orgasm. The hard-on just wouldn't stop.

sg43

25-05-2005, 19:55

It depends what im on...on mdma im all for it, but when on shrooms,research chems or anything else in that class I get super clear vision that makes anything look way too detailed so that sex would gross me out.

antizero

03-06-2005, 23:11

When I'm on DXM its hard to get hard, but once I am it's hard to get
soft. I can beat my dick for hours and the only thing that'll
happen is my arm will get sore.

club222

06-06-2005, 00:24

Basic rundown of my preferred drugs

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Alcohol: Drunk sex is awesome. I'm always ready to go when I've been drinking.

Coke: REALLY want sex, but extremely hard to orgasm. (Long story
short, I went for 11 hours while high on coke, only taking short breaks
to do a couple more lines. Finally orgasmed at hour 11.)

X: Sex is the only thing on my mind, but seems almost impossible to get an erection
Benzos/Downers/Opiates: Doesn't even cross my mind
Weed: I think about it and get horny sometimes on it, but don't really have the motivation to make anything happen
Shrooms/LSD: Fuck sex, look at those trees bending in at me!!
Foxy: ooooooooooh maaaaannnn, this is probably my favorite drug to have sex on.
DXM: If it's a low plateau trip, it may cross my mind once or
twice, but it doesn't really appeal to me. High plateau trip, it would
be impossible. I haven't even tried to get an erection on it, but even
if I did, then I would most likely be too fucked to actually perform,
the girl would have to do all the work.

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chico

06-06-2005, 23:57

While on X, I get huge motivation to hook up with a girl. Having sex is difficult though as I can never orgasm.

While drinking alcohol, I get motivation to hook up butrarely have problems of orgasmlike on X.

While on Methylone/Explosion, I get motivation to hook up but haven't had sex yet. I'm assuming it will be like while on X.

FYI...I've been doing Methylone/Explosion on/off for about 2 months now on the weekends. For whatever reason, I'm losing my motivation to have sex. I still dig girls, still want to hook up, but looking at a hot chick does not get me rock solid like it used to. And, I don't think about sex like I used to. I'm curious if the Methylone/Explosion is starting to affect my boys. http://www.drugs-forum.com/forum/smileys/smiley3.gif

phenethylamine

07-06-2005, 17:01

I've found that LSD can be a sexual stimulant, but not in the same way amphetamines can. At least for me that is, but generally I happen to not have many sexual urges while on drugs. If I was on LSD I would not have an immediate urge to have sex, but if it happens then it's a lot better than if I were not on LSD.

tascha

15-06-2005, 15:09

wicked1

07-07-2005, 23:11

prozac killed my sex drive. permanently. fucking side
effects. I'm trying to find a cure. If anyone has a cure for prozac
SSRI induced sexual dysfunction, pleeease email me.
brendaschultz2002@yahoo.com

I was just watching a tv program last night about that very
issue! it seems to be a BIG problem! and as of yet, there
doesn't seem to be a solution

as for the person asking about metylone killing their sex drive, it
very much is! Its wearing down your dopamine receptors, and those
are definately needed for sex drive! I have had many a friend
completely loose interest in sex because of dopamine effecting drugs.
(E, speed, coke)

For some people it is permanent, and for others reversible. Just
depends how hard you've been on yourself. Sometimes it takes a
couple of years after a hard speed or coke addiction to recover.

i know a cople of people who haven't gotten hard in 10 years do to an old speed addiction.

Oh.. and same goes for heavy alcohol use.. kills the same
receptors.. but alcohol just sux, and there is no excuse for a long
term heavy drinking binge.

GreyApple

08-07-2005, 09:24

I feel quite sexy on drugs actually i feel like tha man

oldman

10-07-2005, 16:48

As for the methylone dopamine depletion, makes sense. Oldman seemed to have a similar problem. Found welbutrin helped some but have to stay off drugs for a while. I will probably agree with the binge drinking hypothesis, having lived that one first hand. I think you just have to realize that when taking serotonin or dopamine dpleting drugs you're gonna have to pay back what you owe with interest in order to continue to enjoy the magic again. Work out, take vitamins, get some sun, meds, just stay away from effexor this will kill you sex drive as well as make you a boring and maybe you won't be depressed but you won't be too happy either.