View Full Version : Scared for my girlfriend- difficult past and pill abuse
just cut here
12-05-2004, 23:36
Ok...So ive known this girl for a few months, and i knew she had a pretty bad past when it came to drugs and sex and so on. I can see she is a very great person and it was mostly her friends that got her to do the things she did. Lately she has been better about it but she is still pretty unhealthy. I was talking to her about her and she always takes sleeping pills at night but instead of taking 2 like she should she takes 7 or 8. Before i met her she was really bad and took like 20 she said. Then in the morning she has to take caffine pills to wake up and she sleeps for 15 hours a day and is awake for 9. Its mostly her past that has her doing all this before she was even 18 she had already slept with 11 different guys and its just crazy. I know deep down she wants to stop but she wont admit it and ask for help. Hopefully someone was in my situation and can help me out.
thrillme
07-06-2004, 14:48
Talk to her. If you can get her to trust you and open up to you and show her that some one is there for her, she may accept your help.
Some people think they're alone.. it may take some time but be gentle and caring. Show her she's not alone.
The first step to solving a problem is admitting you have one. Sometimes it's the hardest step but I've seen it done.
If you need anymore help PM me, and I'll try my best.
My ex was that way, I hate to say it but until she matures up you will be riding the roller coaster with her.
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Well, she says you've made a difference, she takes less pills.
She could feel bad about her sexual past.Maybe that's why she hides from the world in sleep, because reality is painful.
But she has a nice guy in her life now, and she's decreasing pill amounts now that you're here.Just having a caring boyfriend probably makes her whole life seem better. Just stick around- and be yourself.
You may need to involve parents- they are her guardians, and they would want to help their daughter. Seeing as she is under 18, she may need a little boost from family and friends to fight this.
What I meant is at that age parents still care and want to help. Giv ethem a chance to save their daughter. It sounds like her life has been rough enough.